I'm the
product of a government experiment called the public school
system.
I suppose you should know
this about me. It explains a lot. I've never told anyone because it's so
ridiculous you'll assume I'm making it up. That's the price of satire - no one
believes you when you're telling the truth.
I was born a rich kid,
Beverly Hills, north of Santa Monica Blvd., big house, tennis court, Cadillac in
the driveway, all needs met. One neighbor had an Oscar I played with (I.A.L.
Diamond, for writing The Apartment), another had a lavish vomitorium
for those really GOOD parties with endless courses of too much food. I'd go to a
friend's house after school only to discover they actually had their own house
behind their parent's house. When my dad died, we started a gradual descent,
moving to a smaller house, then a smaller house, then to an apartment in the
slums of Beverly Hills below Santa Monica Blvd., all to keep me in what was
supposed to be the best school system in the world.
None of this stopped me
from being a holy terror in class. I was thrown out of the fifth grade at
Beverly Vista Elementary in BH, sent to military school as a "disciplinary
problem," sent back to the sixth grade at Horace Mann Elementary in BH, thrown
out, sent to another military school where I advanced to the rank of corporal,
sent back to the seventh grade at El Rodeo Elementary in BH, and finally
declared "emotionally disturbed" and thrown out of the entire Beverly Hills
Unified School System.
How did this happen? In
1960 or thereabouts, when I was 8, the Beverly Hills Unified School District decided to be the
very first to give every single one of their students one of them fancy new
standardized IQ tests in order to scientifically analyze the entire student
body. They wouldn't tell me the number but I got
fourth highest in the entire district, across all schools, ages and grades. All the other students with high IQs were
the top straight A students except me. I had Cs and Ds and Fs so I became a case
study. How could someone as bright as me be doing so poorly academically? They plucked me out of elementary school and sent me to UCLA Psychiatric Institute where I was tested and observed for weeks,
test after test, observation after observation, drawing, piling blocks,
answering endless questions. They had to figure
me out because if the problem wasn't me, it would have to be
them.
I was actually surprised
I did so well on the IQ test because I had such difficulty answering certain
questions, particularly the ones showing a list of words saying "which one
doesn't belong." The list would be something like...
a)
banana
b)
potato
c)
petunia
d)
candle
One might think the
obvious answer was d) since it's the only one that isn't a form of vegetation,
but I'd be able to come up with a rational reason why every single word didn't
belong. Each word has an "a" but banana is the only one with three. Potato is
the only word with an "o." Petunia is the only word that isn't six letters. I'd
sit there not trying to figure out which was the right answer, they all were
right, but trying to figure out which right answer the jerks who came up with
the test were expecting.
The same problem crept
into my studies. Teachers didn't know how to handle me. I figured if they had
the right to test me, I had the right to test them. I noticed they used a
template for grading tests. I'd reorganize my answers so they couldn't use it.
For my answer to question 1, I'd write "see answer #6," where the correct answer
would be found. I got Fs on tests where I got every answer right, just not in
the expected order. I used this technique from the first grade, elementary
school arithmetic, if the question was "What's 3 + 8," I'd answer "5 + 6."
Correct, but not the answer they were looking for. When did Columbus discover
America? 320 years before the War of 1812.
It never occurred to
anyone that the reason I was acting like this was because I was bored out of my
skull. Anything to pass the time. I managed to learn absolutely everything they
were teaching, just as reliably as their finest students. I just wasn't
mirroring it back to them properly, thus, Cs and Ds and Fs.
Teachers were warned
about me before I ever met them. They kept their eye on me from the first day so
I couldn't get away with anything. I was the first to be blamed if anything
happened, and half my time was spent exiled to the hallway for insubordination.
When I got my first history book, I drew a little B-52 bomber
in the lower left margin of the first page, along with a little city on the far
right. On the next page, I drew the bomber a little bit to the right, closer to
the city, continuing on each page until eventually, if you flipped through the
book, the bomber would fly across the page till it dropped a big one on the
city, causing a mushroom cloud to go up the right
margin.
When my teacher saw this, were they impressed by the fact a
seven-year-old had seemingly invented animation? Animation wasn't the day's
lesson. Did they simply ask me to erase it? Did they encourage my creativity by
handing me a pad of blank paper and asking me to use it for my animations
instead of the textbook? Nope, they suspended me for defacing school
property.
How do you get thrown out
of the 5th grade? I was bored with what they were having me read. One day during
a PE period where I was excused for some medical problem, I had nothing to do,
so I started reading a paperback I saw in a metal rack in the playground, Martian
Chronicles by Ray Bradbury, the first book I ever read so it was the best
book I'd ever read, way better than Dick and Jane. I couldn't stop
reading so I took it with me to class. Nobody had ever explained that those particular books had to be checked out. I left school on my bike and got chased by two
bigger kids who threw me to the ground, searched my backpack, found the book,
and dragged me back to the school office for stealing school property.
Upon finding a fifth
grader caught trying to read a tenth grade book, did they advance me to another
grade? Nope, it was the final straw, they threw me out of the whole
system.
Despite this particular
moment of idiocy, it turned out the BH school system really was better then the
rest, which caused a very strange problem. They'd get rid of me, I'd end up in a
school in the LA system that was teaching what I'd learned the year before, I'd
get straight As, they'd say to Beverly Hills "what's the matter with you, this
is a fine student," BH would take me back, I'd be a year behind, learn
everything but fail, they'd throw me out, send me to another LA school where
they were teaching everything I'd just learned, I'd get straight As again, and
end up right back in BH.
Finally I found myself at
Beverly High for four years, class of '69, WAY before Beverly Hills
90210, with a theater department headed by the magnificent John Ingle, and
a separate parking lot just for students, full of much better cars than those in
the faculty lot. I took swim lessons in the "swim gym," the pool under the
slide-away basketball court made famous in the film It's a Wonderful
Life. Hung with Patricia Cummings - daughter of Bob (You don't know who Bob
Cummings is?), Cathie Amsterdam - daughter of Morry (C'mon, Morry Amsterdam,
from The Dick Van Dyke Show. Who's Dick Van Dyke? Jesus!), and Phil
Ritz, son of Harry of the Ritz Brothers (they replaced The Three Stooges in
Blazing Stewardesses when Moe died before filming, but you knew
that).
When Ella Fitzgerald moved to Beverly Hills, her son Ray
Brown Jr. became the very first person of color many of us had ever met and we went out of our way
to treat him as an equal.
I directed him in the school production of Marty.
One day I was called to
the office where Dr. Morgenstern, an official with the school system, now the
school psychologist, told me he'd read my file and wanted to talk. He told me I
was still one of the smartest students in the system, that they were proud to
have someone so brilliant at the school. He sincerely apologized for the way I
had been treated so far. He couldn't understand why they didn't realize the
problem wasn't me, it was their inability to cope with anybody challenging the
status quo. Dr. Morgenstern followed my career as a journalist and wrote me
decades later with pride at how I had turned out.
Though I went through the
ceremony with my classmates, I was given a blank sheet of paper instead of a
diploma. I never actually graduated BHHS because I was lacking 2 grade points. I
learned absolutely everything they were teaching without having to bother
with crap like homework, which I never handed in, or daily quizzes, which I
inevitably failed. I aced my finals, proving all the other stuff was
unnecessary, but not to one teacher who flunked me anyway. I'd already been
accepted to LACC so who cared.
Time went on. It was a
gradual descent from uptrodden to downtrodden, from all needs met to most needs
met to some needs met to few needs met to no needs met, from Paris Hilton to
Motel 6, from hobnobbing with the got-alls to scrounging with the rest, but the
gravity of life can tend to run downhill.
I always intended to move back to Beverly Hills to
see how my own kids would fare in the same system that had such problems with
me, but that ship has either sailed or never docked. Now my kids are the
products of completely different bad school systems. Dr. Morgenstern's apology was nice but I really hope they learned
their lesson and they're not still creating people so fucked
up.
Maybe telling me my IQ
wasn't such a hot idea, but how else could they explain what they were doing? I
never bragged about it and fifty years later, this is first time I've ever
mentioned it. It was too traumatic for me to consider it a plus. I can't think
of any circumstances in my childhood where knowing I was supposed to be so smart
did me any good. On the contrary, the guys watching me with clipboards only
instilled the belief there was something wrong with me, a belief I apparently
still hold to this day.
Thanks for reading this.
Now I don't have to pay for a therapist.
MD
"The past is our definition. We may strive, with
good reason, to escape it, or to escape what is bad in it, but we will escape it
only by adding something better to it."
- Wendell Berry -
Letters about My Childhood from Issue
#216 of Disinfotainment Today
Amazing story.
- Jeff Crook
My Childhood is a fabulous read.
Life is a trip. Thanks. Do more of this.
- Frank Cavestani
If you were a stand-up, I'd stand in the back
and watch you.
- Larry Hankin
Mr. Dare,
I don't know what are your plans for an
autobiography, if you have written the full scale of it or intend to promote
your writings as such, but I was completely captivated. Surely, this is the
premise of a memorable screenplay, at the very least.
One of life's insults that perplexes me most is how
truly brilliant minds of creative genius so often seem to be perpetually at odds
with realizing their full potential and the ability to lay claim to greatness,
primarily in the form of significant recognition and cold hard
cash.
I, for one, would pay the price of a hardcover to
read it - a new hardcover from one of those expensive hotel book shops with
organic bagels and espresso served in porcelain demi tasse. In other words,
surely the story of your life would sell well.
I have been in that position a few times at school,
seen the kid who is obviously gifted on a level far beyond his peers and
instructors, stuck in the corner, struggling with the strictures of
cookie-cutter education, doodling ideas that speak of talents the rest of us can
only marvel. And I have seen what just a few words of encouragement and
understanding can do to help them see that those years coming of age are such a
small part of the great expanse of destiny. It staggers the imagination what
those kids could accomplish if only more of their educators had the wisdom and
resources to cultivate their abilities.
Thank you for sharing your personal struggles. Few
biographies, in my opinion, prove more interesting than a life lived in full
pursuit of breaking free from the status quo.
- Kristen Twedt
Michael,
This is a wonderful piece you've written and should be a
chapter in a book of your life. You don't need a therapist, you just need to
continue to believe in how smart you are, how well you write, and how someday,
someone is going to realize this and do something for you.
